Childless Women & Mother’s Day

Childless women on Mother’s Day – there IS a place for you because you do have a Mother’s Heart! As childless women, we can wholeheartedly celebrate the mothers around us on Mother’s Day while we look around and see how we have used our own mother’s heart to “mother” our realm of influence too. In seeing mothers and what they do for their children, I think 3 of the main things they do is 1) sacrifice, 2) nurture, and 3) protect. I have never seen a childless woman who doesn’t do at least one of those things in their world as a teacher, businesswoman, cook, custodian, nurse, engineer, etc.

I have never had children, but I have been told I have a mother’s heart. Many women who have not had children hibernate on Mother’s Day. Instead celebrate with other childless women and realize the difference you have made and are making in this world. Mother Theresa sacrificed and touched thousands of people. Condoleezza Rice protected the United States as Secretary of State. Oprah has nurtured many people going through difficult times.

On Mother’s Day, all of us should celebrate the mothers in our lives AND the childless women who mothered us in some way too. After you have called or spent time with your Mom, call or write to thank the childless women who invested in your life too.

Thank you Mom (Dora Austin), Aunt Pearl, Aunt Agnes, Glenda Adams, Chris Beal, Trudy Younger, Annice Norman!!!

Grandma Proud of Her Granddaughters on Mother’s Day

Grandma would be proud of her granddaughters this Mother’s Day! They are making a difference in this world by nurturing, sacrificing and protecting others.

To my nieces Chantel Shannon, Rachael Austin, Laura Austin, Tierra Hull, and Lindsey Austin on Mother’s Day!

As I sat by Grandma’s grave I realized how proud she would be of all of you!!! And on this Mother’s Day whether you have children of your own or not, I see how you are following in her steps because a mother’s heart nurtures, sacrifices, and protects – whether you have children of your own or are childless.

Chantel you are nurturing your students in your classroom everyday! Rachael you are sacrificing for your family by becoming a stay-at-home to save daycare money and partner in Tyler’s business! Laura you are protecting the environment with your amazing photos of God’s creation inspiring others to do their part to take care of it! Tierra you are protecting your little one in your womb by carefully ordering your day to protect his growth until he comes into this world! Lindsey you have nurtured so many animals with your love and care through the years – no animal is homeless around you!

You five are great examples of the strong, competent young women I have seen as students through the years who are making this world a better place – whether they are or ever will be moms or not. I am so proud of all of you!

Mother’s Heart of the Childless?

Whether you are a childless woman or have lost a child, you still have a mother’s heart. This world needs your nurturing, sacrificing, and protecting heart!

Several years ago I posted an online newsletter when I was teaching my Women of Substance class at Mission Hills Church. It was titled “What does Valentine’s Day mean to me as a single woman – never married?” I typed that God has given me a full life and that I have learned to be content in my singleness. But I said that the one regret I have is to not be able to have a “mother’s heart” as I heard referred to about biological mothers of children. Immediately tears started to well up in my eyes.

Instead of wiping away the tears and continuing with my entry, I decided to sit with it and pray asking God to show me what the tears were truly all about. God impressed on my heart that He HAD given me a mother’s heart for the students I deal with who do not have mothers or who are estranged from their mothers. He said a mother’s heart 1) nurtures, 2) sacrifices, and 3) protects. He reminded me of students and others He has touched through me in each of those three ways. Then He showed me how it’s not just single women He has given a mother’s heart to but ALL women – childless women, infertile women, women who’ve had abortions, empty nest women with grown children, and women who have lost children. He showed me women who have nurtured, sacrificed, and protected people throughout time. More to come…